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GAY & LESBIAN BATTERING

FACTS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Violence between partners in any relationship is dynamically the same and may be triggered by numerous factors, including:

  • Stressful or frustrating life situations such as loss of a job, financial problems or pregnancy
  • Role changes (for example, the partner starts school or goes to work) that may impact the batterer's sense of control
  • Use of alcohol and/or drug abuse, which may increase abusive behavior
  • Attitudes and beliefs on the part of the batterer that rationalize abuse ("show the abused partner who's boss" or "a little slap is good for them")
  • Sadistic personality of the batterer.
  • Mental or physical disorders

Hotline 1-800-851-7601

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