DOVES 

 SERVICES FOR MEN

Though the vast majority of victims of physical, verbal, emotional and sexual abuse remain women (80%), this is not the only gender that suffers domestic violence. Men also need assistance, both emotional and legal, as victims of domestic violence. 

There may be several reasons for the increase in male victims coming forward.  As the topic of domestic violence becomes more widely discussed, men as well as women are becoming informed of the help that is available.  Often, when children are involved in the family, a man may become concerned about their safety, and the effects the violence at home is having on them, as well as the damage that he is experiencing. 

Another factor that seems to be contributing to more women acting out in a violent or abusive manner is the increased use of drugs among women. Although law enforcement continues to report a high incidence of alcohol use in domestic violence cases, methampetamines are increasingly found in those involved in violent crimes.  The medical profession has stated that crack cocaine, methampetamines and similar drugs are the most dangerous drugs in our communities.  The use of these drugs is effecting all age groups and cross gender lines.

Men as well as women are encouraged to contact DOVES to help them to heal and go onto a violence free life.  Please call DOVES hotline at 1-800-841-7601.   If you are in immediate danger call 911.

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